Do you want your ex girlfriend / your ex boyfriend back safely?

Are you at all sure that you want to get your ex partner back sure? At first, this question sounds a bit strange to mourn but the relationship has gradually heartache, just because the girlfriend / friend is no longer there. But stop! Pause very briefly your grief and ask yourself honestly if it was not yet more downsides than highlights.

If the relationship has gone to pieces recently, you manage the objective glance maybe not right away. Then you give a little time to get a clear head.

A Chinese proverb says:

If you fall off a mirror and it breaks, then it is possible that you can gather together all the items again with much effort and patience Anstrenung items and place like a puzzle. Following you can hang on the wall the mirror again. You will fasten him now probably stronger, thicker and longer drive screws, just to be sure it does not happen to you again.

Make, make-up or get ready to hair will probably be good enough the mirror, You just have to move something or bend a smooth & perfect place to find where you can see your reflection.

BUT

NEVER, NEVER really more You'll see how you have done it this way in the mirror. The mirror is no longer the same as you and your EX after a breakup no longer the same people.

Might it not be smarter to just buy a new mirror?

This does not mean that one with the smallest wind that raises a mirror to the ground and the mirror image blurs should buy a new one immediately, but that after a failed relationship, yes, you have to call failed, really take a serious and longer should ask is my EX worth it?

You will constantly have the broken mirror in mind and you have to bend you to restore the old "believed" state.

Sure it's possible to grow through a "forgiveness" or by a "back to the Ex" and thereby bring yourself to a higher level but the simpler and probably curative bring more long term way is to look for a new mirror or to find , It is indeed not in the woods to look for mushrooms but to find you!

Check carefully and take your time!

Think exactly what has identified the relationship, what problems there were and whether it really makes sense to recover these partners. Only if you can answer this question honestly, you will spare you much pain and heartache in the future.

Imagine connected so now the question is whether the ex partner was ever good for me.