Mutual Friends after separation

Today I want to devote myself to a question that comes up after many separations: How should one deal from the date of separation with mutual friends? Basically, there are 4 basic rules that must be followed: Rule 1: Never mention to the mutual friends that you want to recover the ex-partner! For the friends talking among themselves and with the ex-partner and there is the risk that the ex-partner will notice that you want him back and talk about him. Rule 2: Do not Ban the mutual friends with your ex-spouse to have contact. Rule 3: Do not talk bad about your ex-partner in your circle of friends. Try the theme of ex-spouse as far as to avoid. Rule 4: Try to be without your ex-partner to meet with the friends together. Meet with your ex-partner and mutual friends often lead to unpleasant situations and do not help you to win the ex-partner back. On the subject of "Mutual Friends" there are 3 different scenarios are possible: Scenario 1: The mutual friends are your ex-partner closer and you are really just an acquaintance. In this case, you should always deal politely with mutual friends. It is your decision whether you break off contact, or if you leave now and then hear from him. One thing is important: Be careful not to look at once after the separation greater contact with the friends of your ex-partner. The feel very unnatural in the rule. Scenario 2: The mutual friends are you and your ex-partner equally close. In this case, you should remain calm in contact with mutual friends. Whether you are removing the contact continues, is up to you. Scenario 3: The mutual friends you are closer than your ex-partner. In this case, you should of course continue to perform regular and close contact with your friends. But beware: Even if it is good friends, do not talk to you about that you want to recover your ex-partner. This topic should lead only to very close friends you trust, not with a whole circle of friends who at that knows your ex-partner well. In our ex back complete package we address the issue of "Mutual Friends" in detail and give recommendations for each of the three scenarios above. I hope to have helped you with this article.