It is very important to honestly ask whether it is a good idea to get your ex girlfriend back win. Be as honest as possible with yourself. This will save you a lot of pain and heartache in the future if you answer this question honestly now.
If your separation took place recently, it may be necessary to give more time and then decide whether you should try your ex-partner to win back. Otherwise you risk due to pain of separation and the stress of the recent separation does not have the necessary clarity.
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Basically, you need to decide if your ex-partner is really good for you. Only if you can honestly say that it is, then you should start planning how to win your ex girlfriend back.
Let's look at single pair examples.
Some people want their ex-partner win gives up because they can not stand the thought of her ex-partner could be with someone else together. This is by far not a love, but just jealousy.
If you miss very much your ex-partner, so that's not necessarily a good reason, the ex-partner to win back. For example, if your ex-partner cheated on you or manipulated, then you might miss them yet, but does that mean that you should definitely be with her?
Bad Relationships are like drugs. It may feel good to take heroin, but is it really good for? This is an extreme example in order to illustrate this fact.
If you want to have your ex-partner for the wrong reasons back then it will only make your life harder.
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On the other hand, it may be that you have made a mistake in the relationship, you really regret now. If you can correct this error, or at least apologize, then you will have a good chance to win back ex-partner.
Maybe you have the relationship for granted or not paid enough attention to the partner. And now it's like saying, "You do not know what you have - until it's gone."
In general, there are two reasons why relationships break apart. Either the reason is a conflict or you live asunder, or sometimes both.
When discussing lives, then there is frequently little conflict and you remain friends after the separation.
If the separation but happened because of a conflict, then you should consider the following: Conflicts always be based on a misunderstanding. This means that either you or your ex-partner have some of the misunderstood what the other has said or done.
All conflicts are misunderstandings, where you overreacted because of overheated emotions. If this has happened to you, then you have a good chance your ex-partner to win back. If their anger cools a bit, then your ex-partner will also begin to miss you.
Fortunately, most people find it much nicer to reconcile himself than to argue.
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