Not harassing your ex!
A truly unforgivable mistake is to contact with the ex-girlfriend / ex-boyfriend to look constantly. Be there. By telephone, SMS, chat or in real life The only thing you're doing is exactly the opposite of what you want. The more you try, the more your ex will withdraw. Often you need first a certain distance in order to more clearly see the relationship from a distance. Please be aware that He / She has played more generally with the idea to separate.
If you have not separated in a dispute or affect, this was a conscious decision against you. No one likes to say goodbye. If, nevertheless, "Enough has been done," then you can not just pretend as if nothing had happened and Him or contact you.
Enter your / your EX this time. Be there if he / she so desires, but you do not run after her. There are for women and men is nothing worse than nuisances and barnacles. So stay very man / woman, keep a cool head. It is important to remain authentic: There are even some counselors in the rule, after the separation of at least a month to have no contact.
Hold the by, it is not unlikely that your ex back and wonder is curious and perhaps even reports of alone again. Be patient and take time for yourself. Come on. Other thoughts
However, please try to hide no feelings just to particularly "unapproachable" to act. If your partner is only interesting if he has to fight for you, then it will not be long until he ended the relationship back or get over his feelings to you is suddenly uncertain.
Important: Before you read the 20 tips, you should read this article:
Was my ex partner good for me?
Before you put your partner or contact with news under pressure, you make better use of the lovelorn forum to clarify open questions and to obtain estimates. Man himself is often too much involved to assess the situation with a clear view can. You make it, good luck!
20 tips:
1.) Do you want to back at all?
2.) threatening suicide, violence and anger - you remain calm
3.) screaming, crying and compassion
4.) The former make her jealous!
5.) restraint, incommunicado and be cool
6) Contact friends, relatives and acquaintances
7.) do not give up hope
8.) No stalking - not harassing your ex!
9.) despair and panic report!
10.) gifts, vouchers or letters
11.) discussion, dispute and avoid stress!
12.) plunge yourself into a new relationship
13) Only the Patient reaps what is right
14) Not to einigeln
15) Listening to the common sense
16. be honest with and the ex
17) Get Opinion by other
18. analyze relationship
19.) For a friendship too early
20.) find positive statements
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