Very often we are asked if it is possible for a separation, the ex-partner to win back. Fact: Sometimes it is relatively easy, the ex-partner to recover, sometimes it takes a little time and strategy and sometimes its even after 6 weeks, still no success. Over the years we have become more skeptical about whether it really is always the best to win back ex. The separation has a reason and before you had plenty an attempt to win back your partner, you should be very clear to you, if you really want this. Sometimes it's just the hurt pride or fear of an unknown situation as a single, which ensures that you want to win back your ex.
We have over the years several thousand (!) Advise couples and individuals after a breakup. Most of these people wanted to reclaim the ex-partner and many have succeeded. Often turned out even after a time that many people want to reclaim the ex-partner after a certain period no longer at all costs.
First, it is important to clarify the cases in which there are chances to win back ex and what not before. Almost hopeless, when the separation is very old (over a year) and if there were massive psychological injury or even (horrors etc.) physical violence in the relationship.
Sensible and successfully can be a trial:
1. If you have a strong desire with your partner to be happy again.
2. When you are ready to learn something from this crisis and change, this situation can be a real opportunity for you, which brings you to a new level.
3. If you are willing to invest a little hope, even though you will probably not recover your partner at the end.
Why it is often possible to win the back:
Your partner has ever been in love with you. Many times the positive feelings that your partner has for you, and yet only buried under a layer of everyday life, quarreling or lack of communication. Many people who have freshly isolated, fall days or a few weeks once the doubt and consider whether the relationship still has not a chance. At this moment you should best prepare you if you want your / n ex back win!
The 12 most important tips if you want to win your (s) ex back:
Tip 1: Manage a contact lock on without any prior notice. See to it that you have a realm in which your partner currently does not matter. If your not living together, just contact no longer apart of important special cases, such as joint children, emergencies, illnesses, etc., then you need a specific type of contact lock. You should also be prepared for it when it logs your ex-partner during the contact barrier (more in the free booklet).
Tip 2: If your party answers: Keep in touch short and factual. If you meet you, to talk about things, do not try to contact artificially prolong. Well, if YOU contact in a friendly manner finish first.
Tip 3: It is your decision whether you have sex with your ex-partner would like. We advise you on this. Soft depend on only when you back between a deep trusting bond, and it is not simply feels over several days or weeks after separation, but like a delicate fresh start. If you "abblockst" your partner, say something like: "Next time, maybe." As a result, you unconsciously sets the perfect setting!
Tip 4: Solve you inwardly by your ex-partner. The more independent you can confront your ex-partner and the less you absolutely want your ex-partner back, the more attractive You seem.
Tip 5 : Bring yourself from a meeting with your ex-partner in a very good emotional state (more on the practical guide). Listen to music that gives you a high, positive energy level or use a different method of use to boot up your energy levels!
Tip 6 : Be the jump. If you hit you, you go first. If your phone, you have not before too much time, but something else.
Tip 7 : Show yourself strong. This is attractive.
Tip 8 : Give something exciting from your life award. Do it discreetly and in passing. For example, that you do not have much time because you do the same XY. "XY" is something completely unexpected, what your ex did not expect from you. For example, a trial class golf or a concert or organize a class reunion of your former classmates. Make a trip (eg a weekend in another city) that will do you good and give you new energy. Important: You should vote. (For more ideas you'll find in Chapter 3 of the Strategy Guide).
Tip 9 : Eighth now particularly strong in front of your appearance and take a visible change. Not just when you expect it to meet your ex. No, even if you do not see your. Do you prettily. For free Get a new hairstyle. Take off 3 pounds. That will do you good and increase your self-esteem.
Tip 10: Let your partner whenever possible a little uncertain. Your partner can guess quiet that you want him back. He should not know with certainty of 100 percent!
Tip 11: Be genuine and authentic. This does not mean that you have to get off to a soul striptease in front of your ex-partner. His "real" does not mean to give up everything. Be real is, that you do not "play" and vormachst false feelings or, for example, so act as if your partner is not interested in you. Only what is really there. This does NOT mean that you should abandon all of you (this would even be fatal). It just means that you should not show something that does not exist! Many ex-restore strategies fail at exactly this point. We give you a lot of powerful manipulation techniques at hand. But we'll also show you how you're using. You can find unfortunately often a lot of "tricks" that are nothing more than playing with fire. It is important to be real, otherwise you lose control.
Tip 12: Be sure to "consistent", which is the opposite of moody, erratic and unpredictable. Who was abandoned by his partner, is frequently exposed to a mixture of emotions and completely loses the thread. That is why you now helps a strong strategy. Get yourself the cumulative experience of people who are exactly in your situation, or were. Our counselors are practically written from the experience of people who could successfully recover the former. You do not stand alone against this situation!
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